On my Mommy’s birthday today, I’d like to enlighten you with some awesomely interesting spiritual facts!
Did you know that you (as a soul) sat with your spirit guides and chose your Mommy?
How does this work?
Soul’s journey as a human, begins in the mother’s womb. Anything that a mother feels & believes is passed on to the child. These type of beliefs are known as genetic beliefs. This is the reason expectant mothers are asked to focus on positive thoughts and are suggested to be surrounded with high vibrational souls. Everything that the mother goes through, reaches the baby (soul)’s subconscious mind. Baby’s mind is unable to differentiate between an uplifting belief and a negative one.
Why am I telling you this?
So that you are mindful of your words around a Mommy-to-be! Never ask questions like-
Would you prefer a boy or a girl?
Are you nervous?
Are you prepared?
Do you know what to do when the baby is out in this world?
This just puts the expectant mother in a pickle where she starts questioning if she’s doing the right thing!
This self-doubt creeps into the baby’s subconscious mind as well.
How does a soul pick the mother?
Once the soul decides to make an entry (again) in this reality, a meeting of sorts is held with the spiritual team of the soul. In this meeting, the soul decides what all lessons & virtues it would like to learn in the upcoming lifetime. Since Mommy is quite a profound point of entry (pun-intended), souls pick expectant mothers who would help them learn those virtues & lessons in the best way possible.
Basically, mother’s vibration attracts the soul of the baby.
To what extent does the expectant mothers ‘attract’ baby’s soul?
It is a well known fact that if an expectant mother has gone through any healing journey whatsoever, the soul she would attract is different (of a higher vibration) than the soul she would have attracted if she would have gotten pregnant before undergoing any healing. This is because…
When we heal, we release a lot of pent up negative emotions which in turn raises our vibration.
Quality of Sex
It is believed that while mating, vibrations of the man & woman as a couple attracts a soul. If the couple is all about “bang bang thank you ma’am” then the overall vibration is low because of the lack of intimacy & divine love for each other. When a couple mates with good intentions i.e. to satisfy each other, please each other mollycoddled with love & respect, the quality of soul they attract is of a higher vibration. Think of it yourself-
Wouldn’t a soul want to pick a set of parents that are loving, respectful & passionate for each other???
Now, did you know about all this?
Perhaps you had a feeling…
Regardless of your past knowledge, allow this new understanding to re-define the way you look at sex & the whole baby-making process!
Mother-child spiritual bond
Children share a spiritual bond of karma with their mothers. They have come through that particular soul (mother) to learn pre-decided lessons and master certain virtues. Now, whether a child’s mother is sorted
or is messed up… it doesn’t matter!
Child’s soul while making a decision (to choose Mommy dearest) was aware of the repercussions of choosing a “difficult” Mommy because the soul of the child chose to learn the hard way.
How is your bond with your mother?
Your current quality of relationship with your mother dictates HOW MUCH YOU HAVE LEARNT FROM HER, through her. Today, I encourage you to grab a paper & pen and list 10 LESSONS you have learnt from your Mommy, both positive & negative. Just write without questioning and the moment you approach number 10, a realisation will kick in… a realisation that I can not articulate in words. But I can tell you that you will instantly UP YOUR VIBE! Trust & write…
1.My mommy taught me the importance of always eating healthy. I remember even when I was little, she would inculcate the importance of chewing properly, cooked my meals in pure desi ghee and make me sip on juices & veggie soups. Consequently, I was a sought after baby and apparently people would line up outside my house to take me on strolls. I felt soooo loved and adored!
2.My mommy enrolled me in one of the finest (& posh) schools of the city because it had a plethora of co-curricular activities. She also ensured that I always worked out in one form or another. As a result of her passion for health & fitness, she enrolled me for swimming classes in summer, then basketball as an after school activity for 3 years, badminton for over three years, lawn tennis for an entire summer, so on and so forth. There was probably no year in my school life when I wasn’t working out or staying active. She always ensured that I had 1-1.5 hours of sport activity everyday!
3.She was a Hitler when it came to studies. She was someone who would get furious if I lost a mark or two here & there. To her, scoring well in tests meant a lot. Perhaps, the time I was growing up grades meant a lot to parents. Regardless of all the bashing I went through, I am proud to say that I am what I am because of her. She pushed me to always work hard and give my best-est-esttt! She has imbibed in me, my biggest strength- to work hard with stellar planning. She would always make study time-tables for me and check up on me even when she wasn’t home. Growing up, I was petrified of her!
4.My mommy believed in EXPOSURE. She made us join dance troops, took us (baby bro & I) on International holidays and always ensured that we become proactive & forthcoming as kids. To her, personality was everything!
5.My mommy taught me how to cool off and not snap for more than 15 minutes. I learnt this the hard way…
6.My mommy encouraged me to always stay organised. This is the reason you’ll find all the tops & dresses in my wardrobe, colour cordinated- lol!
7.Mommy always taught baby bro & I to stay updated with fashion & jazz. To her, looking presentable & classy meant a lot. She made me plan outfits for upcoming holidays and parties!
8.Mommy always organised the best birthday parties for my brother & I. Our friends loved coming over for the games, food, cake, return gift and so so so much more! As a child, birthdays meant a lot to me and my mommy did everything in her control to plan the finest parties.
9.Mommy always spoke to us in English even at the time when people barely understood the importance of this language. It’s her broken & imperfect English that has taught my brother & I how to express ourselves well in a language that isn’t even our own.
10.My mommy is a curious person in general. She loves to learn, heal & grow and I am so incredibly proud of her. She allows me to Coach her & heal her without putting any ego on the table. It’s so enlightening! This role-reversal we share is sooooo heart-warming.
11.Mommy is perhaps the most secure woman there is. She can compliment with utmost ease and does not shy away from appreciating those around her. She doesn’t have even a single muscle of jealousy in her
which is so so so so refreshing.
I can list 10 more reasons but they’re wayyyyy too personal so I’d save those for my journal.
Happy Birthday Mommy, you’re the best and I am glad my soul chose yours to come through. I have learnt a lot from you, through you… I obviously owe my life to you…