29 Life Lessons || Happy Birthday to me

Dear Readers,

This has now turned into a birthday ritual because since the time this blog themavenlifestyle.com was conceived, I have been penning down my life lessons every year.

Read my blog posts from 

Turning 25, here

Turning 26, here

Turning 27, here

Turning 28, here 😉

Now here are the 29 things I’ve learnt since 1991 :-)))))

1> The more grateful you are, the more reasons God (Universe) will give you to be grateful for.

2> If you truly understand the Law of Attraction, you have ‘kind of’ mastered “life”!

3> It is superrr cool to take care of your mental hygeine. Brushing your teeth and bathing at least once everyday is important; so is seeking healing & coaching.

4> Health is wealth. No matter how much money you have in your account, if your health is suffering, you won’t be able to enjoy the money. Sure, you can get the best treatment but the satisfaction you get in the pink of your health only comes with being consistent with superfoods, exercise and living a  healthy lifestyle.

5> Investing in self- physical health, emotional health and spiritual growth is non-negotiable in today’s day and age.

6> Learning should never stop, no matter how successful and well off you’ve become.

7> Mother Earth is our temporary home.

8> We are here to learn valuable life lessons and master virtues.

9> Crying is healthy.

10> Expressing emotions is a sign of a health mind as well as body.

11> There is no such thing as an accident or a coincidence; only synchronicity.

12> The Universe (God) is magnificent and very very fair so STOP USING THE WORD “unfair”.

13> Forgiveness means freeing self from expectations.

14> Forgiveness is done for the benefit of self and not for the other person.

15> If you forgive someone who has hurt you, it doesn’t mean that they don’t have to pay for their bad karma. Karma stays valid even if you forgive the other person. That is why I said, forgiveness is done for freedom of self from the trauma.

16> Appreciating someone else’s beauty doesn’t mean an absence of your own; so compliment others with an open heart.

17> Every time you appreciate someone else’s beauty or virtue or quality, you are ACTUALLY mirroring your own beauty (virtue or quality). Remember, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

18> Reading books opens your mind up for growth. It wires your brain for success.

19> Success = Happiness, period.

20> You have chosen your parents on a soul level so that you can learn valuable lessons from them.

21> Your parents (too) have chosen you so that they can evolve through you.

22> Living in shame is the worst thing you can do to yourself.

23> Forgiving yourself should be done on an everyday basis, like a ritual. Always tell yourself… ‘if I knew better, I’d do better’.

24> You will manifest your divine compatible soulmate when you are ready for him/her, he/she is ready for you and the timing is right as per the Universe’s plan. So, respect the plan of this magnificent Universe *wink*

25> Spotting angel numbers means that your spiritual team (your guides and angels are) contacting you.

26> Meditation as well as emotional (or energy) healing is non-negotiable and a strong sign of self-love and self-care.

27> The more you complain and compare, the more situations you will be pushed into (by God) to complain and compare. You will be stuck in this rut unless you learn your lesson to be grateful and kind.

28> Blessing each other and sending positive vibes is the easiest thing we can do to make this world a better place to live in.

29> By doing JUST ONE random act of kindness, you can raise vibrations of this world by a 100 times (maybe even more).

BONUS 30> The more you love and accept yourself, the more people you will attract in your life who will love and accept you… just the way you are :-))))

Big big smile & posi vibes,


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WE ARE FAMILY :-))))))

12 Comments Add yours

  1. Rajeev says:

    Happy birthday my love. It’s always uplifting to read these listicles.

    1. Aakansha says:

      Thank you for being my biggest supporter and cheerleader AFTER my mother 😉

  2. Rakhi says:

    U r blessing to many people. Lucky to have u. As u give new hope in everyone’s life.

    1. Aakansha says:

      Thank you my beautiful babe!!! xx

  3. Tanvi says:

    Bookmarked the article…so so grateful to come across u and ur blog. I want to teach all these 30 tips to Anantya. ❤😇
    Tip no 20 and 21 always gives me goosebumps

    1. Aakansha says:

      So sweet of you to have said this, cannot wait to catch up with you soon. xx

  4. Shikha says:

    Loved reading this one A , you put it down so well .
    Point 1 and 2 is something i swear by … This is one of those Articles
    i will re read 😍
    love your blogs .. Keep them coming💕

    1. Aakansha says:

      Thank you to my most fav commenter on themavenlifestyle.com
      tight tight tight hug!

  5. Bhavishya says:

    Beautifully penned down 😍
    Truly inspiring!
    I always believe in sixth one✌🏻

    1. Aakansha says:

      Thank you my gorgeous xx

  6. Jaya Gehani says:

    Your every post every penned down things, every video all are so motivational and so inspiring. I wonder sometimes, how can someone in just this young age, be this mature and full of positive vibes, have the power to motivate others. Anku you are truly a blessed soul. Keep inspiring and motivating all like you have been doing till now. And not to forget mentioning about your pics, all are stunning as always and i must say you are blessed with the best in your life always, say it be your parents your in-laws , your hubby and your lifestyle. God bless you always.

    1. Aakansha says:

      Thank you so so so much for such an incredible comment. Jaya, you’re an angel yourself. I bless you and your entire family with a lifetime full of joy, laughter and divine health. Hugsss!!!

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