Hey top cats! I hope you’ve sensed quite a bit of variegation in the recent blog posts.
Well, 2017, just like how I envisioned has been THE most selfish year. I still remember taking a walk with a dear friend of mine (Hey Ankita, whatzaaa…if you’re reading this now…) and resolving to make 2017, ALL ABOUT ME! It’s funny ‘cos I got the exact same message from my spirit guide as well.
This in turn gave me THE golden opportunity to read all the books I’d been craving, workshops and courses I’d been planning on taking up and giving a structure to what I am willing to launch soon in my life (more on that at the end of this post, stay tuned!). Anyway, without further ado…here’s what I learnt about ‘Divine Timing’ whilst playing bride-to-be and an ardent student of sorts.
Destiny and its role
So, have you ever wondered… if destiny happens to you or; you create your own destiny?
Well… Vianna Stibal (Founder of ThetaHealing) believes that some things are pre-planned (by our soul) and that we do them in this lifetime because we WANT to! This is the reason why all the wise people around you will tell you to look at situations in the grand scheme and ask you to ignore some small blips here and there.
Okay, let me elaborate!
What IS happening to us right now is a result of our past karmas and what WILL happen to us in the near future will be a consequence of the actions we take this very minute. Don’t forget, karma commences at thought level! Now, our higher self (our subconscious mind) has (pre-)planned obstacles/hardships/challenges for this lifetime so that we learn our lessons and spiritually ascend. It’s important for us to learn these lessons, gain all the divine wisdom to vibrate at the same frequency as that of the Creator. Now… all these obstacles come at a pre-set timing which is Divine Timing.
No matter how much we try to manifest something that we wish/desire, if the timing isn’t right … it won’t happen. We need to trust and learn the power of Divine Timing. It exists to teach us, help us grow and vibrate a higher frequency. For the ones, who are always cribbing about not getting what they want, when they want it… please know that the timing isn’t right: may be you are not ready, may be you don’t know how to handle that (what you are asking for)…so trust is key!
Divine Timing for Soulmate
I was first introduced with the term ‘divine timing’ when I read… The Soulmate Secret (a book that I recommend all the time). If you are or have been seeking a Soulmate for a while now and you ‘feel’ you have done everything (that is possible out there) to attract or manifest your soulmate but to no avail then… understand that the divine timing to unite with your soulmate has not come.
Wait for it!
Well, simply because in a soulmate relationship… divine timing occurs when both the souls are ready (physically, spiritually, psychologically and emotionally) to (re)unite! If you go against the divine timing and force yourself or the other person into a relationship… it will simply NOT last. Situations/ Circumstances working against your relationship will start to appear causing unnecessary turbulences further jeopardising the (prospective-bright) future of your soulmate relationship!
I know the sound of this can be as annoying as nails on the chalkboard but trust me, it’s for your higher good!
Divine Timing for Career
We are all craving for our life purpose and soul purpose to align with our career but unfortunately these are all different but definitely do collide at one point and that’s when the divine time occurs. This is why it’s said, follow your passion and success will follow. What is success really? In my humble opinion, it is anything but money! Infact it’s that feeling of satisfaction, contentment, complete oneness with your goal.
If you’ve expecting a certain something to work out for you at any given point- be it a job interview with your dream company or the job itself, be it hearing from your dream B-School or getting placed in a Fortune 500 company only to realise that nothing’s working out, then just know that it’s simply ‘cos the divine timing hasn’t arrived.
We are often taught to tell ourself … “it’s probably for the best or something better is coming along…” but I believe that every single time things don’t work in our favour, we must convincingly explain ourselves that it’s simply because the timing isn’t right; or perhaps we are not vibrating at the same frequency as our dream, which is why we are unable to attract it.
Divine Timing for Friendship
We all are seeking friends like family who not just believe in us but remain our personal (pro bono) cheerleaders for life! But… what are we doing to attract them? Maya Angelo says… in order to attract a good friend, be a good friend. When was the last time you went out of your way to help someone ascend in life…when was the last time you stepped out of your comfort zone to do something you’ve been having on your mind? In order to have uplifting friendships, you need to vibrate at a frequency that will attract souls who are looking for the exact same thing.
Folks, just know that divine timing occurs when it HAS to occur. We, as individuals need to do our own thing to constantly raise our vibrations to attract the best and only the best for us!
If you are seeking a transformation in life or going through a phase that you are not happy with (and just about to call it quits); moreover if you are willing to step into a happy, positive and a miraculous life, then feel free to get in touch with me at firstname.lastname@example.org !