Dear Readers,
I’d commence this blog post by first congratulating you to take the time out to think, read & mull over a topic like so. Please give yourself credit for wanting to know & delve into the myriad hues of Spirituality. Believe it or not, this is what is going to restore your faith in yourself, bring you closer to your life’s mission, feed your soul & fuel your purpose.
So without further ado, let’s get cracking…
Destiny
You’ve heard this word a gazillion times I’m certain. Usually, when things don’t go your way, you hear people (and eventually yourself) ‘blaming’ destiny for not putting your ideal situation in your life’s plan.
Now is when I’d gloat a little and burst your bubble!
What if I tell you that you write your own destiny?
Yes, you, not God/Creator/Superpower/Universe; it’s you!
Well, if you wrote your destiny, then why would you write unpleasant situations?
Soul Purpose
I am guessing that you’re clear on the universal fact that you don’t have a soul, you ARE a soul. The only biggest & ultimate purpose of the soul is to grow, vibrate at a higher frequency and eventually merge with the Creator (moksh)!
But how can you do that if you’re caught up in the realm of jealousy, anger, insecurity, fear, guilt, shame, greed, etc.?
Well, simply put, every soul is on a journey and every lifetime is a costume that one wears and changes with every birth. Each lifetime is supposed to contribute towards growth of the soul. Please understand that every soul has strengths & weaknesses and in order to grow, the soul is going to have to overcome the weakness, learn the virtue needed to transform the weakness into a strength & master it. So, with every birth, a soul (subconsciously) decides to face a certain amount & type of circumstances (which we look at as “problems”) in order to master a virtue.
A soul, however, doesn’t do this alone. It does so before it is conceived in the physical world with the help of it’s spirit team of Guides, Guardian Angels, Archangels, Fairies, Ascended Masters in the presence of Creator’s essence & Laws of the Universe.
To sum this up, every soul decides the life journey before entering the physical world and this is done in order to master certain virtues and clear out karmic debts!
Karmic Account
Karma or the Law of Cause & Effect is one of the many Laws of this Universe. Laws of the Universe were created by God to ensure everything is in place; meaning, the existence for one & all is fair but most importantly harmonious.
Karma plays a very intricate role in designing one’s destiny. Based on your karmic account (positive/negative), soul decides the quality of life before it enters the physical realm. But mind you, karma is not just in action, it’s in thought & words too. Physically hurting someone is bad karma and so is thinking negatively (cursing/being jealous/hoping for someone’s downfall)! Verbally abusing is equally bad so please be mindful of what you think, speak and do to yourself & as well as those around you!
To sum this up (for better clarity), YOUR destiny is written by YOUR soul (and not by God) in the Spirit World keeping in mind the status of your karmic account + virtues you need to learn & master.
Astrology
Astrology is simply a tool that can be used to understand one’s strengths & weaknesses and NOTHING BEYOND THAT! It will not change your destiny but only warn you or alarm you provided you go to a wise soul who practices Astrology with complete understanding.
You can read more about Astrology in my previous blog post, HERE!
I urge you to not rely on Astrology for predictions because your future is DYNAMIC; (yep *wink*) … constantly changing.
Now this makes for a perfect segue into…
Freewill
If you could just take one thing from the blog post and stick it with yourself for eternity, I’d like it to be the divine fact that:
Creator/God (as most people call it) loves us all unconditionally!
No matter what you do, think or speak, God will love you unconditionally.
The ‘Creator of All That Is’ will never punish you or be angry with you or even be upset by you because it only knows how to love without any conditions.
This is the reason Creator has given us all the gift of Free Will.
This means we (as a soul, not a physical body), can do whatever we want & whatever we like.
Destiny Versus Freewill
It’s revelation time!!!
Ready?
Okay, so…
The life that you’re living right now is 90% destined and 10% freewill.
To elaborate; for this lifetime, your soul has decided 90% of your life based on your karmic account & virtues you wish to master. This includes the parents you will be born to, the soul you will end up marrying, souls you will come in an emotionally intimate relationship with, souls you will serve, souls you will clear old karmic debts with, life-threatening illnesses & diseases you will face to learn certain lessons, etc.
BUT
10% of your life is ruled by free will which means the way you react to the aforementioned situations will determine your future!!!
Future
Free will, even though has only 10% of the role in a soul’s physical lifetime, is much much much more important than the 90% karmic vault bank. You will experience the situations that are destined by you but THE WAY YOU FACE THEM is what decides your future.
If you are living a life of faith, surrender, compassion, kindness, focus, passion, zeal, enthusiasm regardless of what happens in your reality, you are making good use of your free will. Whining, complaining, blaming, cursing, running away from problems, torturing self & others, indulging in addictions & abuse is misusing the gift of free will God has given you…
Winner Winner Chicken Dinner
In the grand scheme of things, the way you use your free will affects your karma which in turn affects your destiny. It’s a beautiful (and fair) cycle that the Creator has made to keep everyone in harmony & sync!
Please don’t forget that every second of the day, you have free will to either be a positive soul who is living an authentic life true to its’ purpose or a negative nancy who is constantly complaining & blaming others for every unpleasant situation.
You have the free will to live a life with an attitude of gratitude but if you choose to focus on the “lack” then you are digging your own grave!
Moving forward, self-work & the only thing that matters
Life on this physical realm is all about learning & growing. The way we lead our life is reflective of our priorities and the only thing that matters i.e. holds NUMBER ONE PRIORITY (believe it or not) is to grow and be one with the Creator; no amount of material wealth, educational degrees, cars, properties, holidays and fame is going to fuel our soul’s purpose.
It’s good to live a happy life, have material abundance & power but how you use the abundance that comes your way decides whether you have passed or failed in this lifetime, whether you’ve moved up the spiritual ladder or not, whether you’ve raised your vibrations or lowered ‘em!
The sooner you understand this, the better!
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Love & Gratitude,
Aakansha
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Thanks Anku for bringing this topic to my knowledge 🙂
More power and luck to you <3
It’s a privilege & an honor.
I’m glad you found this helpful.
One of the best reads!! Thanks for writing this…
I’m really glad you liked this Yamini.
Love and lots of it,
Aakansha
The way you explained is super cool….simple but powerful….thankyou for sharing this great teaching….will surely need your support to raise my free will….love you infinite
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS WITH US. LOVED HOW YOU WROTE ABOUT IT. YOU RAISED EVERYONE’S VIBRATION OVER HERE.
THINGS I LEARNT AFTER READING THIS POST IS
-YOU CREATE YOUR OWN DESTINY.
-YOUR LIFE IS 90% DESTINED AND 10% FREEWILL. WE HAVE A 10% CHANCE TO CHANGE OUR DESTINY.
-OUR DESTINY CHANGES ACCORDING TO OUR KARMIC ACCOUNT. SO WE HAVE TO BE CAREFUL WITH THAT.
THANK YOU 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
Fantastic baby!