A few years ago, I developed one of the best habits that has a major role to play in the way I live my life today; that is reading! Reading is one of the most overrated yet underrated quality. Yes, I call it a quality!
Since the time I started reading, I found myself-
->Being able to understand
anything and everythingLIFE better.
->People asking me all the time how old I really really am (guess I sounded wiser for my age 😉 )
->I knew the solution to almost every problem.
->I could help my fellow folks through pretty much anything in life and
->Last but definitely not the least, I found ME! Somewhere in the middle of these books, I found me.
The 13 BOOKS YOU MUST READ IN THIS LIFETIME
Maybe you should talk to someone by Lori Gottlieb
Surprise jolts us to attention.
‘Maybe you should talk to someone’ did that for me if I were to give my reaction to this book in one line.
I am big on personifications and oxymoron happens to be my favorite one :-p
That’s what this book is, an absolute oxymoron.
I smile in wonder as to how a book can be so easy breezy and profound at the same time. ‘Maybe you should talk to someone’ is Lori’s memoir which is written in a way that even slow readers like me can manage to read fast enough whilst absorbing the true essence…ethos of this book which is to
seek help & guidance.
Lori says and I agree that professionals in the self help industry (such as therapists, coaches, healers) are supposed to be a container for the hope a wounded (unhealed) person cannot yet hold 🙂
Lori being a therapist is brave enough to talk about her breakup and denial that follows after. It’s cool to witness vulnerabilities to be honest, especially that of a therapist. She also speaks about her patients in a way that you will get invested in their stories. Every patient story is unique- painful, funny and profound. I found myself crying multiple times while reading this book. One of those times my sister
-in-law (Priyanka) randomly walked into my room to be left flabbergasted as to why I was sitting alone with a book and crying. LOL!!!
John made me cry.
Julie lubricated my heart with tears.
Rita’s story instilled more compassion in me and reminded me that PEOPLE CAN CHANGE (slowly but surely) if given a chance.
John, Julie and Rita are the patients Lori talks about in the book.
If you are seeking a meaningful book which is light, funny and leaves your heart with warmth, then definitely pick this up. I am so happy I came across this book. I strongly recommend you all to read it.
Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser
I strongly recommend this book because it various topics such as
Bozos on the bus,
The hands that work on us,
Lightening up and falling down,
The Shaman Lover,
Run Away, Bunny,
Terrors and miracles,
Open secret, etc.
that made me scream in joy and scribble notes both in the book and in my phone. This entire books sheds light on how we all are a work in progress and there is no such thing as perfection.
Perfection is an illusion which only ignorant people run after.
In a world where sharing vulnerabilities are mostly associated with the feeling of shame, this book in a way makes grieving seem natural and healthy. Whether you’re flourishing in life or going through a dark phase, you MUST READ THIS BOOK. It will bring a lot of things in perspective for you.
Some of my absolute favorite lines from the book are ->
“Grief is a tonic. It’s a healing elixir made of tears that lubricate the heart. Grief is a proof of our love, a demonstration of how deeply we have allowed another to touch us. “
‘Parenthood is a clumsy yet majestic dance in the flames. When you parent, you fall in love with a person who is always changing into someone else and will one day fly away like a soaring falcon.’
“Phoenix process of the highest order can be pursued by raising children. “
“Despair is a non discriminating fellow; when despair throws a late night party, he invites in every hopeless situation thy troubles the mind. “
“I trust the wisdom of the unseen hand in my child’s life. “
“I grant my child her god given right to fall down and rise up again like a Phoenix from the ashes. “
“Everything around us is a dynamic system fueled by the breath of change. “
Kundalini by Om Swami
This book talks about the human chakras in utmost detail relating everything to the Mythology of Lord Shiva.
I consider myself extremely lucky to have been recommended this book by my ex-manager & now very dear friend Neha Prasad Jha. God bless Neha for encouraging me to wallow into this book which is full of wisdom that is a gift for readers who actually decide to pick up this book.
This book has separate chapters on every single (of 7 main) chakras of the human body. I read this book back in 2018 and I still remember from 2016-2017, two full years I was going around asking yoga enthusiaists around me what “chakras” mean and they had no flying clue.
So, that’s the thing with chakras… a lot of people either don’t know, or, have incomplete knowledge which is why this book is your best source of information.
I would very very strongly urge you to read this book because it talks about chakras in relation with ->
kundalini energy i.e. ‘shakti’,
goddess of fertitility, Parvati…
I still remember the scintillating stories from this book! Ahh, what a brilliant read! Must-have!
Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
I am not into Finance but I am perhaps the biggest fan of this book. I believe this book should be a mandatory read in SCHOOL. This book talks about Robert’s two Dads- one rich & one poor who taught Robert the value of investing, financial freedom and living a healthy financial life. This book talks about saving ideas, spending patterns and of course INVESTING!
I read this book very early on in life and I cannot tell you how much of an impact this book has left on me. This book address “how to live a financially healthy” life in step-by-step format. By the end of the book, whether you have a lot of money or not… you would want to INVEST it- either in FD/mutual funds/property/stocks/… etc. I suggest anyone who is 16+ MUST READ THIS BOOK. Nobody is too young ot too old to read this book. Must, must read !!!
I was so inspired by this book that I also read Rober’s wife, Kim Kiyosaki’s book called RICH WOMAN.
Women need to become financially independent now more than ever and this book is must-read for all my divas out there.
Ladies, you HAVE TO read this book, it’s non-negotiable.
Radical Forgiveness by Colin Tipping
If you’re someone who gets hurt very quickly or finds it hard to let go of “stuff” or gets angry often or gets triggered on repeated patterns in life, then book is your Bible.
I cannot emphasize enough the magic this book beholds for you. Colin explains forgiveness in a new and radical fashion which will stick with you forever. This book is full of stories that will touch you and strike a chord with you. Radical Forgiveness comes with an actual worksheet that takesz you through the forgiveness process so that you can never give yourself an excuse that says…
‘i know it’s important for me to forgive… but i don’t quite know how to’!!!
This book is an absolute keeper and one of the MOST VALUABLE GIFTS you can give yourself or to your loved ones.
The Celestine Prophecy
This was one of the books which while reading I wanted to start over and read again and again and again. But…. you gotta be “ready” for this book. This book is for dreamers and believers. This book is for people who are ready to witness miracles in the form of synchronicities in their life. Get this book if you will have the heart to cherish it’s learnings forever and ever… if you’re a skeptic who doesn’t believe in the magnificence of this Universe, please wait until you’re ready! This book is collector’s piece… something you pass on to your children…
The Conscious Parent by Dr. Shefali Tsabary
Whethere you’re a parent or not, this book will help you evolve and understand parenting from a spiritual standpoint. If you are willing to invest in your child, then you gotta read this book or just watch videos featuring Dr. Shefali. She is gonna transform your perspective on Parenting. Her book revolves around the poem below-
The Laws of the Spirit World by Khorshed Bhavnagri
This book talks about the 4th Plane of Existence which is the SPIRIT WORLD. If you know what “Automatic Writing” is then this book will make total sense to you.
Alternatively, if you need to know answers to pretty much anything and everything in life, grab this book. It will rock your world and boggle your mind. Every word in this book not just makes sense but also grabs you from a low vibrational life and puts you in a place where you see things for what they truly are!
You gotta be a believer if you wish to read this book.
This book talks about…
>The Spririt World
>The Soul and The Subconscious Mind
>Your Mission on Earth
>Positive Thinking and SO MUCH MORE!
The Universe Has Your Back by Gabrielle Bernstein
In this book, Gabby (the author) talks about how much we all operate from fear and how that ends up creating a major lack, a void in our lives. She talks about how one should live a life where ‘Love Guides’!
She also insists that we all must ‘Step Back and Let Love Lead the Way’!
Some of my favorite quotes include:
“When you surrender your relationships to love, you are able to bring your higher self to the table.”
“The practice of being on a spiritual path isn’t about being the best meditator, or the kindest possible person or the most enlightened. The practice is about surrendering to love as often as possible.”
“ The pathway to healing occurs when you love yourself so much that the darkness from the past can no longer co-exist with your faith in the light of the present moment.”
“By embracing the Universe as your support system, you are no longer relying solely on your own power to solve your problems.”
To put a cherry on this beautiful cake; this book talks about-
>>Your Hidden Power
>>You being the Dreamer of your Dream
>>You being guided at all times
>>Your Vibes, that speak much louder than your words
>>Obstacles being detours in the right direction
>>The Universe is speaking to you in mysterious ways
>>You are the Universe AND SO MUCH MORE!
A Fistful of Wisdom by Om Swami
A dear friend and mentor of mine introduced me to Om Swami’s wisdom and I cannot thank her enough for that. This guy is probably the coolest monk ever! His musings will not just rattle your belief system but also strike a chord with your heart. His take on pretty much everything is life is just TOO COOL FOR SCHOOL. Some of my favorite lines from his book are-
“Compassion and forgiveness are simply synonyms of sacrifice. When you forgive, somewhere you sacrifice a part of your own existence, your respect, your dignity, yourself. But by forgiving, you also go beyond the shackles of ego. Besides, sacrifice is not a trade, you don’t expect anything for yourself in return, it is philanthropy, it’s an act of charity.”
“Surrendering to the Divine or having or having faith in God certainly does not mean that no harm will befall us or that everything will work out the way we envisage. It simply means that we accept the fact that there are numerous things that we don’t understand in the intricate workings of nature and that we are fine with it.”
This book talks about-
>>>The Puzzle of Life
>>>If Astrology is for Real or not?
>>>Karmic Trail & Psychic Imprints
>>>Mind & Impure Thoughts
>>>Single Parents & Broken Marriages
>>>The Art of Apology
>>The Greatest Skill
>>Do Prayers Work
>>The Loss of a Loved One
>>The Role of Suffering
>>>Your Karmic Account so on and so forth.
PS…If you find yourself extremely keen on knowing about the 7 Chakras and what they really mean, then you can also grab Om Swami’s book called KUNDALINI.
The Power of Subconscious Mind
This is by far one of the most challenging books I’ve ever read!
Because the time I picked this book, I had no flying clue about what the title meant. I just got a feeling that it will change my life and this feeling was enough for me to take a plunge into the deep end! This book is for the people who find it hard to believe in God, Spirituality, Soul; it’s also for the people who believe in some force out there and the Law of Attraction. This book is proof that YOU ARE WHAT YOU ATTRACT & in turn, YOU ATTRACT WHO YOU ARE! It talks about the power of thoughts and all the genius Science behind it.
To give you a teeny little brief-
This book will teach you how you have two minds- one that of your physical body (Conscious) and the other that of your soul/auric body (Subconscious). The latter is a million time stronger than the former and that’s why it’s DORMANT. But by doing some exercises mentioned in this book, you can learn how to tap into your Subconscious mind that will make you the best version of yourself allowing you to ATTRACT ANYTHING YOU DESIRE, ANYTHING!
This book covers-
>>>>The Treasure House Within You
>>>>How your own Mind Works
>>>>Miracles- Working Power of Your Subconscious
>>>>Mental Healing in Ancient & Modern Times
>>>>How to use your Subconscious Mind for Wealth, to Be Rich, to solve Marital issues, to find more Happiness so on and so forth.
THIS IS BOOK IS A MIRACLE & SHYING AWAY FROM READING THIS BOOK IS AN ABSOLUTE SHAME!
Conversations with God (Book 1) by Neale Donald Walsch
This book is the book that tears me after every 3 pages. It has words from the Creator, The Almighty…the be all and end all of our existence. It’s hands down one of the most amazing books I have ever come across. However, I would urge you to read this book after you’ve read the aforementioned books as the base that those books provide will put you in a place to understand and accept each and everything this book has to say!